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Benjamin Franklin, wrote in 1789 that “Our new Constitution is now established, and has an appearance that promises permanency; but in this world, nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.” This is something that is very difficult to dispute, even to this day.

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This unadulterated truth may well be the case however something that does not have to be as prescribed, is the way in which we celebrate the life of a person when the time comes to bid farewell.

As a child, I was told that my parents felt that I was old enough to go to my grandmother’s funeral which was held in a catholic church which my grandmother fellowshipped during her later years. The church was fairly modern in design, with an unusual flat room, large and interesting stain glass windows filled the room with light; a modernised pulpit took center stage on a slightly raised platform. It was my first funeral and I had no idea what to expect. My grandmother was presented in a closed casket in the middle of the room, towards the front. Her casket was covered in flowers and stood pronounced in the room. It was the first time I had seen a casket and morbidly wondered what it must be like inside one. Those attending were quiet and sombre, despite the pretty colours streaming in through the windows. The hymns were slow and laboured and the priest played his part as he held his censer below the narrowing plate with one hand, allowing it to swing freely. This image is etched in my mind but so is the feeling of complete disconnect I felt.

Death may be a certainty but the type of funeral you chose, does not have to be. Traditions are beautiful and very much required as a part of society to help bring us together in community to mark the special events which punctuate our lives. When it came time for me to bid farewell to my own mother, I knew that there was another way to go about celebrating her life, which is what I know she wanted.

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With the help of Lodge Brothers Funeral Directors, I was able to replace the sombre memory I had of my grandmother’s passing but choosing an alternative funeral for my mother. When it comes to thinking about it, there are many ways in which you can say “I love you” one more time at the funeral of your loved one. Traditional funerals are often being replaced by original funerals which are far more personal and individual funerals as the life of the person you are saying goodbye to. Lodge Brothers have extensive experience assisting families with special funeral requests and will also provide you with various alternate ideas for the day. A funeral is always sad but can it can also be beautiful, simple, sentimental and heartfelt event that can give you peace of mind knowing that you have celebrated someone’s life in the most respectful and positive way possible.

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Turn to Lodge Brothers family of trusted funeral directors

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Lodge Brothers Funeral directors are the family that your family can trust and turn to when faced with the daunting and emotionally demanding task of arranging a funeral for your loved one. Lodge Brothers Funeral directors have been in the business for nearly 240 years, in the UK and you can expect the same original quality and level of service, in every aspect of the company’s services. Forward thinking Lodge Brothers can assist you with each and every aspect related to the passing of a loved one, from the moment your need arises, until the moment the coffin lid closes for the final time, you know you are in the hands of the best in the business.

Arranging a funeral is something that you hopefully do not have to experience too often in your life-time. But when the need arises, what better place to turn than to the family-orientated company which deals with funerals on a daily basis. The importance of the event can never be over-stated as this is the time that you have to process your grief and say your final goodbye. Not matter whether the passing of your loved one was sudden and unexpected, or if the passing was expected and brings a sense of relief, there is always a process of grieving that must be experienced in order to help with letting go and dealing with the loss experienced. Sometimes a funeral was not expected and the beloved may not have prepared sufficiently or at all, for the event. Sometimes there is a Will that has been prepared, but in some cases, the Will may be incorrectly completed, not witnessed or signed, meaning that a legal representative will need to get involved in assisting with the details of the probate.

Lodge Brothers team of funeral directors are ready to take over at a moment’s notice. In other instances, pre-paid funeral packages where the deceased has the opportunity to fully prepare all of the various details of the passing in much detail, with the assistance of Lodge Brothers funeral packages which are available to suit any pocket. Lodge Brothers’ pre-paid plans take into account the bespoke memorial package “wish list” of the deceased and are executed exactly to plan. This is an important aspect psychologically for many people who have specific desires for how and where they say their final goodbye to their loved ones. So often, people have a very specific vision for the end of days and preparing this ahead of time, on a pre-paid plan, gives them peace of mind knowing that they will have the send-off that they wish for, all the while, making sure that there is very little responsibility or decision-making to be done by their families. Lodge Brothers Funeral directors understand full-well the importance of saying goodbye your way while protecting clients against rising inflation-driven costs, related to having a funeral.

Modern floral tributes, memorials, and individual keepsake jewellery requests can be made in advance or at the time of the passing, for the convenience of the grieving family. Provide your loved one with the ultimate tribute to their life in a way that shows that their life made a difference in yours.

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Funeral Directors with a personal touch

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As human beings, we often spend time pondering our humanity. We think about how we might pass away some day, wondering if it will be sooner than later, quick or drawn out. And often after thoughts such as these have passed through our minds, we swiftly move on to the more pressing issues we have in our lives. Death is a certainty but when it will happen is not. We always feel as if there is another time to think about it and deal with the specifics. There is enough life admin to sort out in our daily lives keeping us occupied, that we end up dodging the thoughts about the logistics of our passing, to the back of the list of many things to do. Sometimes, when life changes dramatically, like when a new baby joins the family or a divorce occurs, we think about updating our wills (if we even have one prepared) or making plans for our end of life. But more often than not, we put a pin in it and years or decades can pass by before we even wain to think about it again.

My funeral. What do I want for MY funeral? You may not be sure about where to begin planning this event but Lodge Brothers Funeral Directors does and they are the professionals that you need to facilitate and guide you through the preparation of every aspect of any funeral. Whether you are planning for your own or if you are planning that of a loved one who has recently passed away, you can find all of the help that you need at Lodge Brothers funeral directors London. The fact is that until you have experienced an event such as a funeral, where you have had to make all of the arrangements and consider all of the logistics involved, you simply can never know the full extent of what is involved. Besides arranging for flights and accommodation for family coming in from out of town, preparing eulogies, posting obituaries, booking churches and the like, there are a myriad of other aspects which you will have to deal with. This is where having a professional company who you can trust to assist you with the many things which have to be done, can never be over emphasised. No matter how simple or elaborate, expensive or budget-minded, traditional or modern, Lodge Brothers funeral directors will guide you through every aspect of the service while providing you with the highest levels of service. Both Lodge Brothers and their trust service providers are on hand throughout the whole event.

Planning your own funeral can save your loved ones a lot of emotional distress. So why not come through and visit one of our dedicated funeral directors London for a the best advise on how to plan and budget for any funeral. Or you can log on to the website and view the interactive funeral guide on how to arrange a funeral, what needs to be done following a death, whether it be expected or unexpected, plus all other aspects regarding the professional funeral services Lodge Brothers offers.

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Have the funeral you would like

More and more people are now planning and paying for their funeral in advance. When the time comes everything is paid and taken care of. Planning your Pre Paid Funeral ahead of time has a number of benefits for you and for those you love.

  • Relieve your family from stress and anxiety
    It’s hard enough to say goodbye without the added pressure of worrying about the deceased’s last wishes. That’s why pre paid funerals can be so helpful in relieving any added stress on your family and loved ones.
  • Lighten the financial load on your family
    By covering all costs in advance you will have the peace of mind of knowing that your family won’t have to worry about how they will pay. Pre-paying your funeral can be your final gift to those you love, allowing them to say goodbye without concerns about money at a time when they are least able to cope.
  • Fixed Price means money saved
    Buying a funeral at today’s prices protects you and your family from inflation and any future price increase. Saving you money and worry; it’s a logical and considered purchase that not everyone wants to make, but most people are glad they did.
  • Personalise your funeral, say “goodbye” your way
    Throughout life we are defined by our personality, our actions and how we interact with those around us. Family Funerals Trust believes this should continue with your last act in this world. We encourage you to think about things now so that your life and personality shine through, at your final goodbye.

    Click here to personalise a Prepaid funerals

  • Family run funeral directors giving the personal touch
    In a world dominated by huge, national funeral directors with branches in virtually every high street, Family Funerals Trust offers an uplifting and welcome change. We are a privately run, family owned Company who, through seven generations of the same family, have brought sensitivity, understanding and personal attention to every funeral we handle.
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